Date Someone You Don’t Have To Impress

Date someone you can be goofy with. Someone who can embrace your silliness, someone who joins you in your absurdity and someone who doesn’t ask you to act in a certain way or speak in a certain manner so you can attract them. Date someone who is impressed by originality, by authenticity and by how…

Do I Miss You, Or Do I Miss The Idea Of You?

There’s that old familiar saying, ‘you never know what you have until you don’t have it anymore.’ I can’t help but to go back and forth with my thoughts, wondering if this is the situation I am finding now myself in. Do I miss you? Or do I miss the idea of you?We didn’t speak…

Letter from a girl who was molested 

​It’s true what the statistics say: It’s someone you know. Most sexual abuse offenders pick those they are familiar with. Thirty percent are family relatives. I stayed up nights running my fingers over these stats like they were rosary beads.Fathers. Uncles. Brothers. For me, it was mummy’s first cousin. I wonder who else I might…

How I Ended Up Losing My Virginity

Don’t let the title fool you, for this won’t involve steamy bed sheets, loud moans and fireworks. Instead, this is about a girl who religiously checked under her bed for monsters. What she didn’t realize is that monsters appear in all shapes and sizes. Not realizing that the devil itself could appear to be so…

Confessions Of A Conflicted Homewrecker

This time last year, I gained the infamous label of “homewrecker”. I spent the night with a guy who was dating someone for a little more than a year at the time. You may be disgusted to read that I didn’t have remorse for that night. I wasn’t thinking of Anna*. I was only thinking…

How 19-Year Old Lagos Girl Had Sex With 30 Men In One Day

A 19-year-old girl from Lagos, Ifekoya Adejoke, pictured above, has narrated her experience as a sex slave at TB Joshua’s Synagogue, Church Of All Nations (SCOAN). According to her, she was tempted by a deceitful promise of “greener pastures” abroad, and became a cruel victim of human trafficking, bounded to a bed in a dingy,…

Principles For Setting Definite Dates

1) It’s always best to ask, “When are you free to get together?” or “What’s your schedule like this coming week?” or “What’s your schedule availability like this week to meet up?” It’s much easier to ask her when she is available, and then pick one of those days and times that you are also…

Kim Kardashian Bares All On The Cover Of GQ Magazine

Just six months after giving birth to her second child, my role model Kim Kardashian is back and looking hotter than ever — and she’s proud to show it off on the latest cover of GQ. On her first cover for the magazine, the 35-year-old reality star covers up her private parts with nothing but…

7 Reasons Why You’re Still Single

1. You constantly post memes about “love” Whether its Monday and you’re hating love, Friday and you’re feeling independent, or Wednesday and you decide to reminisce on love lost, there is a meme for every day and your Instagram is flooded with cliché quotes on why you’re still single. I’m sorry, but your meme screams…

4 Best Ways To Spot A Liar

You hear between 10 and 200 lies a day, according to a TED-Ed video recently reported by Life-hacker. Luckily, researchers have uncovered some ways to spot someone who’s fibbing to you — even if their pants haven’t caught fire. For much of human history, the video points out, we’ve worked to create technology that catches…

Need A Lady For Hook Up

Hello, I am looking for a lady I can take care of financially, sort of like a friend with benefits. You scratch my back, and I scratch yours….. She should be between 20-30 and be living in Lagos She should also be good looking and a fun person. I am quiet and self employed You…