The Secrets Men Keep

What He’s Thinking We like to cuddle. Cuddling is all about mood and ambience. It’s peaceful to lie in someone’s arms in the dark with great music or even the low buzz of the TV (although that tends to distract me) in the background. It’s nice to hear nothing but your lover’s breath against the…

6 Signs He’s About to Say I Love You

It’s hard to say those three simple words. For most men it starts off as a suspicion (“Holy f*ck. Do I love this girl?”) then it grows to certainty, then to anxiety about how and when to say it, and whether the woman might feel the same way. Even if your guy has a hunch…

Am I a Lesbian?

While unpacking an oversize suitcase in my tiny, sweltering apartment in New York City, I could hear the gay-pride parade roaring past my window. Outside, French-kissing women and be-thonged boys danced their way down Fifth Avenue: free, flamboyant, uninhibited. I’d just left my quiet Midwestern town where “liberal” was the amount of mustard you put…

Love in later life: sex and stigma

Sex in later life isn’t a popular topic of discussion. This is partly because our culture appears more interested in young faces and glamorised love with the likes of 50 Shades, and partly because we’re British and we keep such things to ourselves. But this is an important conversation, and one that everyone will find…

The 15 Emotional Stages of Being in a New Relationship

1. Oh my god, where did you come from, most perfect person I have ever met?! Kissing you is the best and hanging out with you is the best and also not having to date someone who is a total loser is the best! Plus, you are so hot! How are you so hot? 2….

How not to compare your partner to others

Comparing your partner to other people, and the way you do it, can affect the level of stress and conflict in your relationship. It’s natural to make comparisons. It’s one of the ways we make sense of the world to ourselves. We choose our partners because we like them more than we like other people,…

Falling in Love with My Transgender Husband

Having learned almost everything I know about dating from watching teen dramas like The O.C. and Gossip Girl, I expected to do some crazy things for love: get wrapped up in a lover’s drug-smuggling ring, perhaps, or steal a rival’s yacht. But helping my boyfriend in his transition from female to male was not an…

The Signs He’s Cheating

When you get suspicious that your significant other is cheating, be careful not to appear to be paranoid. You have to walk a fine line — you don’t want to make false accusations. So, while I’m sharing this list of cheating red flags, I concede that it’s a tricky situation. It’s hard to be sure…

STORY BY KLOETD : My First Night in A Lady’s Room

It was d final year of my diploma course ND my friend had moved in to this newly rentd apatmnt, I had to visit him just 2 say hi, Then I found out it wasn’t just a friend house its a group of friends house . Some weeks had passd wic made me more familiar…

TIPS ON HOW TO TRUST YOUR BOYFRIEND

Trust is a key element in having a strong and lasting relationship with your boyfriend. Without trust, your relationship will slowly fall apart, as Frank Crane once made clear when he said that while “you may be deceived if you trust too much, you will live in torment if you do not trust enough.” How…

5 common Mistakes in a Relationship

Love, friendship, intimacy, passion, mutual support… all these relationship benefits make for a happier life. Ah, that special someone you can laugh with, who shares your hopes, dreams, and concerns – and you don’t have to book an appointment and pay £80 an hour. Hold on a moment – we can be in danger of…

How To Get A Man To Propose To You

Most men, who are willing to get married, just want a happy and easy-going woman who has good values. Want a marriage proposal fast? Then embrace these tips 1. You are not bossy When a man first meets you, and thinks your character trait is OK, he starts to feel he should propose and walk…